God’s been teaching me to fly by the seat of my pants over the last several months. I’m learning this isn’t just for a season – it’s something I’m adopting as a lifestyle. If you know me at all, you know flying by the seat of my pants is not second nature to me. I’ve realized that for me, it all boils down to trust. Who am I going to trust? Will I trust my well-thought-out plans? Or will I trust God who knows all, who is I AM, and who thrives in the interruptions of life? I’ve made up my mind. This is my decision. I’m moving forward free and unfettered as He’s asking me to do, living carefree in the care of God, trusting Him, my one and only constant. Why? Because He's Worthy! Will you join me in this wild and exhuberating journey?

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Introducing My New Blog!


A little over a year ago I wrote a blog post: 11 Secrets to Success for the Single Life and to this day it is the most trafficked post on my blog. I find it funny that this blog post began because God hi-lighted one young lady to me who needed encouragement regarding her singleness, and since then I’ve met countless single women in the same boat. The need for encouragement and hope among singles is great in this hour! We need each other! It’s for this reason, I’ve decided to start a new blog: TheAbundant Single Life! My prayer is that it will be a place where singles can stop in and be encouraged, refreshed, and equipped to embrace their wait with glistening hope! I’m excited to share what God has taught me and what He’s currently teaching me about living life to the full as a single woman. While I don’t have it all figured out, I do want to be faithful to steward the wisdom and insight God has given me on my journey thus far. So it is with great joy, that I invite you to visit my new blog and send it onto any singles you know who are need of encouragement.




Wednesday, September 18, 2013

12 Fundraising Tips


I was recently asked to share the wealth of all that I’ve learned about raising money since I grew up in the world of fundraising as a missionary kid. As a result, this blog post was born. Much of what I have learned regarding fundraising has come from observing my missionary parents, observing several other family members and friends who are in ministry today, and experiencing my own fundraising adventures for a variety of missions trips throughout my life.  I also had the privilege of putting the steps in this blog post into practice when I went to ministry school and saw God provide abundantly above and beyond what I ever could have imagined! Thus, I’m freely sharing 12 fundraising tips with you today in hopes that it will encourage and aid you or perhaps someone you know.

1.    First – and most importantly - surrender your needs to God and trust Him to fulfill His purposes in your life. He is Jehovah Jireh – our provider. Always look to Him to see how you can partner with Him in making your dreams come true and then position your heart and mind to receive however the Lord chooses to provide for you. The steps I’ve listed here are just suggestions. As you partner with God, you might find that He likes to provide in ways you would never think of or dream up on your own. These steps are just a way to get started. I’ve known people who have felt like their only action step was to pray and ask God for their needs and then have watched God supernaturally provide for them without having had told a single soul. Nothing is impossible with God! The important thing is that you seek the Lord for guidance first and then move into action based on what He leads you to do. With that said, let’s get started on some practical tips that might help you begin your own fundraising adventure.

2.     Share your story and vision with those God places on your heart. People want to know what they are investing in. Your story is powerful because no one will have the passion for your vision like you do. Sharing your story is in essence sharing your passion for the vision you’re going after. There are many ways to reach out to people - take advantage of them all – but be careful to not over do it. Think about how individual people respond best and then approach them in that manner.
a.     In person
b.     On the phone
c.      Via a blog
d.     Via email
e.     Via a fundraising website
f.      Via social media

3.     Share how you’re contributing to and invested in your vision. What’s your part in making it a reality? e.g., “I’ve set aside time to meet with people like you who might be interested in partnering with me. I’m also contributing 10% of my paycheck from my part time job to my financial goal.” When you share how you’re invested in your vision, it’s showing that you believe in what you’re doing and you believe it’s worth their time to invest in you as well.

4.     State your goal clearly. e.g., “In addition to the 10% I’m contributing to my goal, I need to raise $2000 by the end of this month.”

5.     Break the goal down. e.g.,  “If I have 20 people who agree to give $100, the money will be raised. Or if I have 40 people who agree to give $50, the goal will be met.” It’s easy to get overwhelmed when looking at the big picture, so it’s important to break the goal down into more manageable sizes, for both you and your potential supporters. Once you break the goals down, it’s important to remain flexible and allow people to give however they feel led to give.

6.     Ask potential supporters to pray about how they might be involved. Can they give financially at this time and if so, how much? That’s the question at hand, and it’s something most people want time to think about. It’s good to give them time and space to think and pray about it before asking for a commitment from them.

7.     Set a date and time to follow up and then keep that appointment. At this time, it’s key to ask them directly if they’ve had any direction from the Lord on how they might be able to participate. This is the appropriate time to ask for a commitment.

8.    Practice gratitude.  
a.     Whether a person gives to you financially or not, be sure to thank them for their time, and for any encouragement or prayer support they have given or said they will give. There are many ways people can invest in your vision, be sure to recognize various investments in you and offer thanks. A thank you can go a long way in encouraging others and showing them you value what they are giving to you.
b.     Send a thank you card (via snail mail if possible) to anyone who donates funds to your cause as soon as their funds come through.
c.      Remember, what you focus on grows. If you cultivate a grateful heart and focus on all the gifts God is giving you, you will be overflowing with God’s goodness and positioned to receive even more provision from God through whatever means He desires to provide for you.

9.     Send regular updates to your supporters. Once a month is typically a good time frame to send out updates. Include:
a.     Where you’re at with your financial goal. It’s important to be transparent with your supporters on where you stand financially. Otherwise, it’s difficult for them to know how your goal is coming along and how they might be able to continue to participate with you.
b.     An update of how your vision is taking shape. e.g. share any progression that’s happened. If you’re raising funds for ministry school and classes have begun, share what you’ve learned so far, etc. Simply share from you heart what’s happening in your life.
c.      Any testimonies/stories that tie into your vision.

10. Practice generosity. Relationships are meant to have a beautiful facet of give and take. Asking for finances is sharing what you need. I encourage you to ask what your supporters are in need of and see if you might be able to contribute to their lives as well. It could be as simple as stopping and praying with a person you’re meeting with and ministering to their needs. Generosity doesn’t always equal finances. Get creative and think about ways you can be generous with your time, talent, and gifts. e.g., Instead of making your social media all about you, consider giving some helpful links to things that are relevant in the lives of your friends. It can be as simple as that. Little acts of generosity do add up.

11. Give tithe regularly out of love for God. God’s Word clearly states that paying tithe is a command from the Lord. God has all the money and resources in the world. In fact, all that we own is actually His. So why tithe? First it’s a mandate from God. Second, it teaches us how to keep God first in our lives. Third, it helps us from becoming selfish, and unselfish people are better friends, relatives, employees, employers, wives, and husbands. Tithing is actually being a good steward of what God has given you. Good stewardship is like a magnet for more blessings and favor. If a supporter knows you are tithing, it’s a good indicator to them that you will steward their gifts as well.

12. Create an email signature that includes your blog, social media links, and phone number. We live in an information age where people can easily get overloaded and lose important contact information. Make it easy for them to connect with you. Likewise, make an effort to connect with others often – not for what they can give you, but out of a heart of love and desire to foster community. After all, support can be given in a variety of packages such as prayer, a conversation, encouragement, etc. The bottom line is we need each other, and life together is better!

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Dreams Do Come True!

I just returned from vacation and find myself pondering all that took place during those eight days of adventures and resting. I feel like a different person after the fact. That may seem like a strong statement, but I just think that's the power of rest and having life giving words spoken over you. It's been a long season of transition and refreshment is precisely what I needed. Thankfully, that's exactly what happened. There are many stories I could share with you, but the one I'm choosing to write about today is what's pressing on my heart most.


I flew stand by to California (another story in of itself) to visit three friends who are near and dear to my heart - Honey, Beena, and Sarah (as pictured above). We met last year while at ministry school in Redding, CA and like to call ourselves the Fantastic Four! We have many dreams between the four of us that involve us partnering together in various adventures. The dream we chose to go after this past week was to take flight in a hot air balloon over Napa Valley. We made our reservation in spite of the hefty price tag that came with it and the loss of sleep from rising long before daybreak...somehow we knew the value of this experience would far outweigh the cost.

There's nothing more exhilarating than knowing that your dreams are coming true! Although we were lacking sleep, we could not miss the excitement in the air during those early morning twilight hours as our car neared our destination. It was spitting rain a bit which caused us a little concern so we simply prayed and asked God to remove anything that would hinder our dreams from coming true.

We arrived at our destination and walked to the check in desk linked arm in arm with each other and with an expectation of good things ahead. We're all about documenting our adventures, so we quickly started snapping photos while we enjoyed some complementary coffee, fruit, and pastries. Honey had thought ahead and bought four packages of skittles for us to eat on the hot air balloon ride. It was symbolic of tasting the rainbow - the promises of God. While we waited, Honey fashioned a hot air ballon out of the skittles and her rainbow bracelet. It was so apropos!

After waiting quite a while and hearing someone from the hot air balloon company apologize for the delay twice, one of the pilots arrived on the scene. He started explaining that because they care for the well being of everyone going up in the hot air balloon, they take great caution when monitoring the weather and determining if it's safe or not. Unfortunately, that morning, their were reports of rain in our travel path as well as high winds that could propose higher risk than they were comfortable with. So in light of that, they had decided to cancel the flight. I could tell he was really sad to have to cancel in the delivery of his speech but I also knew that a wise decision had been made. To help ease our disappointment, he did mention that there was a golf ball drop from one of their hot air balloons at a nearby golf course and that we were welcome to go see the preparation for that balloon to go up and get pictures with it.

We let this news sink in for about a minute realizing this was our only chance for a hot air balloon ride that week because it was our last day in Napa Valley. We put our heads together and quickly decided that God must have something better in mind - in fact we declared He did right there and then not knowing what that would look like. So we decided to go to the golf course and see what would happen. Perhaps the fulfillment of our dreams coming true wasn't over just yet...

We followed the pilot's in their van to the golf course and saw the crew setting up the hot air balloon upon our arrival. We quickly greeted the crew and shared that our flight had been canceled and we were there to see the golf ball drop. Apparently the golf ball drop was a charity event for the rotary club. They had several bags of golf balls that they were going to drop over the balloon at 50 feet in the air and attempt to drop them in one of the holes on the green. The golf balls were numbered and whatever golf balls dropped in the hole were the winners.

The crew was really kind to us and encouraged us to take photos while they set up. We also asked if it would be possible to go up in the tethered balloon. One of the guys on the crew said he would ask for us and to stay close to the basket so that we'd be ready if it was possible.


While we waited, we took in the beauty of this massive balloon being filled with fire and wind with the mountains as the back drop and the green bed of grass laying underneath it. We lived fully in this moment capturing as many photos as possible of the balloon, of each other, of all of us together. At one point they let us go inside the balloon and took our photo for us - something that, from my understanding, typically has a $15 fee attached to it. But they didn't charge us anything. What a blessing!


It came time for the balloon to go up and the crew started asking people on the ground who were a part of the rotary club if they wanted to go up. No one wanted to arise to the occasion. Good thing the Fantastic Four was standing close by! They motioned us to come aboard and we did so gladly! We got to take flight after all! Not only that, but we were given the opportunity to partner with their community by participating in this charity.

We lifted off the ground together and rose to 50 feet above the golf course in the tethered hot air balloon...and then we dropped the golf balls over the side of the basket. In our hearts and prayers, the dropping of those golf balls was really a releasing of God's love over the land.


By the end, they were thanking us for helping them. And we just shook our heads and said "no, thank YOU!" Talk about a win, win situation! As Sarah said, "What's better than a hot air balloon ride? A FREE hot air balloon ride!"

So what's the moral of this story? Well, there's probably more than what I'm going to hi-light. But this is my personal take away. God is faithful to bring about the deepest desires and dreams in our hearts. When the circumstances of life don't look favorable for those dreams to come true, keep believing that God has something better in mind and is working to bring it about. Sometimes the fulfillment of our dreams looks different than we could have ever imagined (actually most of the time that's the case!) but it's always better and exactly how Papa God has masterfully and intricately woven the tapestry of our lives together to meet us where we're at, to rain down His love on all of His children, and to glorify Himself. I've been learning how to have expectancy for my dreams to come true - not expectations. It involves a good measure of faith and confidence that God's promises are true and will happen, and yet grace to hold those promises and dreams loosely for God to mold them accordingly to His good plan. Keep the faith my brothers and sisters - dreams do come true!